Tuesday, November 11, 2008

remembrance day

Today is a day many adoptive families will always remember. I think i counted at least 6 families that had successful court days!!! this means that they are legally parents of the children that they were referred!!! Wow! Unfortunately these families have been waiting a long time for court. they mostly all got their referrals in the summer. Court closes for 2 months and so they had an extra long wait. A successful court date now leads to passports and visas being issued - and then travel!! The way the wait times are going, we might get caught up in court closures too.
Now that they babies are legally adopted, parents can post photos on their blogs and let me tell you - they are some of the cutest babies i have ever seen!!!!
Its pretty exciting to see things moving. Congrats to all the families who are one huge step closer to realizing their dreams!!
Also unfortunate were 2 families who did not have successful court dates - per usual paperwork is holding them up. Must be rough for them to come so close and have a set back.
In a very selfish way i love to hear good news. It is so great to live vicariously through others!! Good news means that these babies will be coming home to Canada soon - making room for more babies to come into the system, causing more referrals and causing our file to inch its way closer to the top.
So congrats to all with good news today. For those who got disappointing news - i am so sorry - keep holding on. For those of us just starting out - live the joy of others and hold on to your dreams!!!

4 comments:

Karen said...

Hi Brenda,

Thank you for the well wishes today! And you are right, Miss Phoebe does have a mischevious little twinkle in her enormous brown eyes...sometimes it makes me slightly nervous.

Can't wait to hear of the little person that will someday be joining your family!

Take care,
Karen

Barb said...

Thanks Brenda! I hope this is just the beginning of the good news this week!

Barb

Janice said...

Well said Brenda!!!

Melissa said...

Hey Brenda,
I was wondering if you might send me a copy of your spreadsheet of people ahead of you. I'll have to fill in a couple of weeks, but I'm just dying to know where I'm at, you know? Anyway, if you don't mind, that'd be sweet.
melissaharmsma@gmail.com